Life on Mars
A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results.
To offer a man unsolicited advise is to pressume that he doesn't know what to do or he can't do it on his own.
Life on Venus
A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationship.
Give up Giving Advice
Generally speaking, when a woman offers unsolicited advice or tries to "help" a man, she has no idea of how critical and unsolving she may sound to him.
Learning to Listen
Many times a woman just wants to share her feelings about her day, and her husband thinking he is helping , interrupts her by offering a steady flow of solutions to her problems.
When our partner resist us it's probably because we have made a mistake in our timing or approach.
A man wants to make improvements when he feels he is being approached as the solution to a problem rather than as the problem itself.
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